G-spot or clitoris: Which clitoral stimulator or vibrator to choose?

Do you want to treat yourself and buy an intimate accessory ? We understand! But which vibrator should you choose? When you consider that there are a multitude of options, such as the type of stimulation (clitoral, vaginal), power, size, vibration modes... It's not so easy to navigate.

The first question to ask yourself before exploring your pleasure is this: when you masturbate or during sex, is your thing more clitoral stimulation, penetration, or both? Depending on your answer, your thoughts will turn to different solutions. But don't panic, Gapianne guides you with advice and a few stimulators that should please you.

External stimulation: stimulate the clitoris and vulva

The clitoris is an erectile organ of the genitals located at the top of the vulva. Nine-tenths of the clitoris is internal and invisible. Although largely overlooked in textbooks, we invite you to take a look at what the clitoris looks like.

The clitoris is filled with thousands of nerve endings , making it a very sensitive area, a source of arousal and pleasure. Contrary to popular belief, most people with a vulva achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation, not through penetration alone .

We quickly continue the debrief: the lips are the thin inner folds of the vulva (which may or may not protrude), and they are often sensitive and erogenous.

This gives us plenty of reasons to consider external vibrators , which can stimulate the clitoris, massage the labia and vulva, particularly exciting areas that are good to take care of!

Some people enjoy direct stimulation of their clitoris, while for others, it may be more sensitive or uncomfortable to the touch. Varying the intensity of this stimulation will fluctuate and increase your pleasure as you wish. Intimate accessories can be more or less intense.

Choose them carefully according to your preferences (or those of your partner) and the level of vibration they offer.

Contactless Clitoral Stimulator: The Pulsed Air Revolution

In the world of sex toys , it's the STAR of the moment. Lockdown has caused sales of this type of clitoral stimulator to explode. It has a reputation (and we've verified it) for giving one or more orgasms in minutes, or even seconds!

Stimulate your clitoris with revolutionary sonic pulsation technology . “Touchless” stimulation is in! (hehe)

Sometimes called a clitoris vacuum, this sex toy stimulates your clitoris with a rush of air, without ever touching it. Very useful for not desensitizing the clitoris , which can sometimes be the case with overly intense vibrators in direct contact with the glans of the clitoris.

The "SILA" is a sex toy for women from the Swedish brand LELO, designed to stimulate the clitoris gently and subtly. It features LELO's patented "SenSonic" technology, which uses sound waves to stimulate the surface and inner layers of the clitoris.

The SILA is shaped like a small disc and is made from medical-grade silicone, making it body-safe and soft to the touch. It has 8 different vibration modes, ranging from gentle to intense.

Also discover the pioneers of the genre with the Womanizer range (from €69 to €129).

To find out how to use a clitoral stimulator , we have written a very comprehensive article :)

External vibrators

Do you prefer direct vibrations? Variable speeds often allow you to adjust the vibration level to increase the pleasure? Are you a beginner? Start with gentle vibrations and work your way up at your own pace!

Small ergonomic nuggets to make our favorite organ vibrate, these vibrators have several modes to adapt to your desires and vary the pleasures. The change of rhythm is key. Follow me, I run away, run away from me, I follow you, it's by creating lack that we intensify desire, so don't hesitate to play with pressure, rhythm, and intensity.

The "Galet Dune" is a vibrator from the French brand My Lubie, which is designed to provide discreet and targeted stimulation of the clitoris. It has a flat, oval shape, reminiscent of a pebble, making it easy to hold and position during use.

The Dune Pebble is made from medical-grade silicone, making it body-safe and soft to the touch. It features 7 different vibration modes, ranging from gentle to intense, as well as a memory function that allows you to recall your favorite vibration mode.

Find and stimulate the famous G-spot

Misinformation has long created confusion between the vagina and the vulva . As we have seen, the vulva is the external part of the genitals, including the labia and the clitoris. The vagina, on the other hand, corresponds to the internal part ; it connects the vulva to the inside of the cervix and to the reproductive organs.

Vaginal sex is called penetration. While the clitoris plays a central role in sexual pleasure , penetration is also a source of pleasure to explore (if you want to, of course!).

NB: By internal stimulation, we can also talk about anal penetration: the anus and the rectum are nervous tissues which capture pleasure, therefore potentially rich in sensations, if you are ready to explore.

What is the G-spot?

First, yes, the G-spot exists ! While there's no magic orgasm button, when we talk about vaginal penetration, we often refer to the "G-spot": a bundle of nerve endings located in the vagina, about 2 to 3 centimeters from the entrance, on the anterior (ventral) surface of the vaginal wall. The "G-spot" or "Gräfenberg point" is a more sensitive area that can be a source of more intense pleasure.

How to find your G-spot or that of your partner?

Every person is unique and may have different preferences when it comes to sexual stimulation. Stimulating the G-spot does n't necessarily lead to orgasm . The best way to find your G-spot is to try different actions, including using special sex toys. And to find someone's G-spot, communicating with them and asking them what they prefer is the best advice. You can also explore their body and ask your partner what makes them feel good.

Which vibrators stimulate the G-spot?

The "Sextoy Tennis Coach" is a vibrator from Smile Makers, which is designed to stimulate the G-spot . It is shaped like a tennis racket and has gentle curves for comfortable insertion. It is made from medical-grade silicone, making it body-safe and hypoallergenic.

The Tennis Coach Sex Toy has 4 different vibration speeds, ranging from gentle to intense, and is waterproof, making it easy to clean and allowing you to use it in the shower or bathtub.

If you order this vibrator, your Gapianne package will come with a user guide to help you maximize your pleasure.

NB 2: We recommend using a water-based lubricant to reduce friction, sensitivity and increase pleasure.

Otherwise, opt for the Womanizer brand, which created the very first G-spot stimulator with pulsed air technology: the OG (OMG!!!!) no less.

Double stimulation: G-spot AND clitoris at the same time

Well, why choose? The "rabbit" is a very popular vibrator made popular by the 90s series Sex and the City. It has a double, kiss-cool effect, stimulating the so-called "G-spot" and the clitoris at the same time! Chances are you'll find what you're looking for here.

Some recommendations for double stimulation:

1) The "Coco" is a sex toy for women from the Puissante brand, which is designed to stimulate the clitoris with powerful vibrations. It has a U-shape, with two oval and flexible heads that easily adapt to the contours of the body .

Discover the Coco de Puissante

The Coco is made from medical-grade silicone, making it body-safe and soft to the touch. It features 10 different vibration modes, ranging from gentle to intense.

Otherwise, opt for the latest toy from Puissante le CHOUCHOU, a replica made in France of the famous Rabbit, revisited and stylized with taste. We love it!

2) The "Tiani" is a sex toy for couples from the LELO brand, which is designed to be worn during sexual intercourse for simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and the G-spot.

It is also U-shaped, with a larger end for internal stimulation and a smaller end for external stimulation .

Our selection of sex toys, vibrators, and stimulators is expanding to meet your needs, with an affordable entry-level range and increasingly stylish, ergonomic, effective, and body-friendly products. Take a look :)